my own rules for tumblr….
when im on tumblr i click “like” on anything then grabs my attention for about 6 month
and then go on a “reblog” frenzy though all my likes from those 6 month
reson i do this is so all the blogs from 6 months ago dont get forgotten because tumblr is updated so quickly, it probs seens random and weird but its just what i do…
how i wont to bring my kids up when i become a dad some day…
I think I would make a good parent one day, people say it hard but you just need to know how to get thought to kids on a level they understand, stay in charge but still willing for compromise, and show understanding on were there coming from, besides we’ve all been in there shoes once before, but the most in portent thing is to always truest them, because if you show the signs that you don’t truest them, then the kid is more likely to rebel agents you, and the one big thing is kids wont to be treated like adults, so if they do something wrong then don’t just ground them or get mad, simply site down and calmly explain why its wrong, there more likely to respond in a better manner and more likely to not do it again because you have treated them in the way they wont to be treated and would not find you as the enemy, there should be rules but the rules shouldn’t be unforced, they should be told a reason why you have these rule and make sure they know it is in there best interest, if the rule is broken then simply speak to them calmly about it and ask them why they broke this rule, the key is to find a middle ground with kids,
don’t be strict but don’t just give up, kids from strict parents are likely to rebel because they find you unfair and never letting them do what they wont to do witch cud resort in many problems when they get to teen years and start finding out about alcohol, drugs and sex, and showing that you give up and don’t care what they do, shows lake of love and protection witch will make them become teens that have a empty gap in there life’s witch will be filled in with more than likely alcohol, drugs or sex, always know that you are a roll model to a kid, what mum and dad do they will do to, or at lest try to do, so the way you treat your kids will effect how they treat there’s, because we all say “when we have kids we will treat them different to when we wear kids”, but we all know that when it comes down to it we don’t because its what we know and the only main example we can go basted off when bringing up a kid.
I’m not saying that all kids are doomed to fail if they are not parented like this and I’m not saying that this is a 100% full proof plan to bring your kids up in order to make them the perfect parson when there older, that is all down to them, weather it be that they decide to drink, or do drugs and so on, but this is a plan I intend to stick with when i have kids because I wont to try my best to be the parent that my kids dont resent when there older…
